The Old Judge has
occasionally used this blog to brag about his six children, nineteen
grandchildren or six great-grandchildren. Today, I want to tip my hat to one of
the eight in-laws who also help to populate the Brennan clan; Marybeth’s
husband, Jim Hicks. Jim is the Assistant Dean at the Savannah Law School.
Here is what a former
student of his, Afghanistan veteran Dan Perez, posted about Jim Hicks on
Facebook:
“Let me tell you
about this amazing man and what he has done for my life. Back in 2003, he was a
"funny guy" law professor of mine. We met during some odd
circumstances (I wasn't the most successful in his course during my first
semester of law school). However, there was something about this professor at
the time that connected us. At the time, I was not sure why. Then in 2004, I
deployed to Iraq. For some reason that I could not put my finger on at the
time, I would write to him, emails and letters, usually about my difficulties
in the war zone or my difficulties with certain "difficult" leaders.
He would tell me to push through and continue to do the right thing, and I felt
that I was successful. I returned from Iraq and returned to law school, and I
thanked him for being an ear to my gripes. Then my struggles with reintegration
occurred and after many, many beers, way too many beers and feeling sorry for
myself, I flunked out of law school, in what would have been my final year of
law school in 2007. During my desperation time, he tried to step in and right
my ship for me with words of encouragement, and in the end at the time,
pleading with me to slow down and give recovery and integration a chance.
Despite my failures, he continued to support me, and over the next 5 years,
pushed me, and pushed many, many others to support my readmission into law
school, even speaking on the phone, long distance, to my parents. Even when I
gave up, he wouldn't give up, and he wrote many letters and made many phone
calls and personally addressed many administrators and officials at many
meetings, all imploring them to readmit me. Even I gave up on myself ever
returning to law school. I completed a deployment to Afghanistan, then earned
my MBA, all because I had already given up on law school and working in the
legal profession. I charted a different life. But he would not let me go. Upon
my return from Afghanistan, 5 years after my academic dismissal from law
school, he finally got me back into law school, through way more of his own
efforts than any effort on my part. I thought about this today during my train
ride into work, into Downtown Chicago, where I work at a large law firm, and
earn the equivalent of a 6-figure salary (on an hourly basis). Because of him,
more than anyone else, I am here working in Downtown Chicago. Even if I had not
initially failed in 2007, and had successfully become a lawyer then, my only
dream was to become an attorney in a minority neighborhood on the Southside of
Chicago, make a steady salary at a small office, and live happily ever after. I
grew up in what, by any standard, would be considered a "ghetto" in
Harvey, Illinois. I don't really know anyone that dreamed farther than that
lifestyle, and by all accounts, even those small dreams would have been a major
success for someone growing up in my situation, and I would have been very
happy. But through his pushing, and pushing, and pushing, I eventually started
pushing. Now, I sit at this desk, in this high-rise building in downtown
Chicago, with a window overlooking an amazingly beautiful and large art
sculpture surrounded by Federal Court Buildings, making way more money than I
would have ever thought I could, or should, make, with the freedom of coming
and going where I please, where the senior lawyers in my office look at my work
product and analyses as subject-matter expert work, doing Spanish and Portuguese-language
contract analysis on behalf of major worldwide corporate and government
clients, I would not be here today if not for one man. Yes, there are many
others who supported me throughout life and do so today, and they have helped
me overall become a decent man. However, one man's efforts put me here in
Downtown Chicago: Law Professor, now Law School Dean Jim Hicks. Thank you for
pushing me into success. Thank you for not giving up on me, even when I did.”
And that, My Friends,
is what I call a dedicated law professor. Who says the American Dream isn’t
alive and well?
What a wonderful "thank you" to your son-in-law!! Veda
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